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Re: Proposition 8 Overturned
« Reply #45 on: February 08, 2012, 12:26:54 AM »
Because I find some aspects of Church teachings reprehensible, but I agree with the vast majority of it, and it is certainly closer to my overall beliefs than much else.

Sorry to get so personal, but can you give me an example of the "vast majority" of things you agree with the Church?  How about the virgin birth of Christ?  What about His resurrection and miracles?  And what about the very existence of God and Christ?

(Before answering, my motive in asking these things is because the consensus of science - of which you regard with the utmost esteem - completely and utterly rejects these things.)

Ooooo, this one was too good I just had to jump in and put in my two cents.

If I'm not mistaken, TUC is referring to the Catholic church's teachings, which include (but not limited to) things such as:
-the golden rule
-do not judge others
-faith is proven by acts of faith, love, and charity, not just words
-give to the less fortunate without condition
-peace and tranquility, not war
-justice and freedom are collective entities and must be worked towards as a community

Even though I'm not a Catholic anymore, I still hold these teaching close my heart.  In many ways, they still lay in the foundation of my faith.  And I have to say, when you referred to the teachings of the church, I was thrown off when you mentioned things like the virgin birth and the resurrection, not the actual teachings of Jesus.

Here's my thought process: does it matter if Jesus was born of a virgin birth or literally rose from the dead?  Not really, in my opinion - I find details like these to be issues of semantics.  These do not serve as true justification why Jesus is the chosen son of God, the savior of mankind, the embodiment of divinity.  Furthermore, they do not change his message.

Here's what does it for me: a man who claimed he was the son of God had a message that rang so true to very fibers of our conscience that it has lit the world on fire (metaphorically speaking) and stayed the truest, strongest message of good mankind has ever come across for 2,000 years.  No ordinary man can do that; THAT is what justifies his divinity.

Sorry if that was off topic.

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Re: Proposition 8 Overturned
« Reply #46 on: February 08, 2012, 12:30:47 AM »
^^In addition, to bring things back on topic: Jesus never said one thing regarding what we now know as homosexuality.  I'm fairly certain he doesn't even mention instances of men laying with other men in the bible.  If it was such an abomination and an issue that need the utmost attention from his followers, you think he would have mentioned it.

Regardless of what's said in the rest of the Bible, it the word's of Jesus that should shape one's faith.  And faith in God should never be mistaken for faith in the Bible; they are two VERY different things.

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Re: Proposition 8 Overturned
« Reply #47 on: February 08, 2012, 12:31:31 AM »
The will of the people must be respected at all costs, huh, Big Girls?
Why even bother holding elections in California?  According to you, instead of wasting time standing in line waiting to cast a vote, the citizens of California would be better served to just let the government judges decide everything for them, right?

I guess it was wrong for slavery to be abolished then, since the Confederates wanted it so badly, right?
Yes, slavery was a horrible stain on our nation’s history… but I would hardly equate the issue of gay rights to slavery.  To my knowledge, there are no laws against being gay, are there?  (Is that true in Middle Eastern countries?)  That means gay individuals are free to do as they wish (even adopt children).  They just can’t enter into a marriage contract recognized by the state.  However, enslaved African-Americans could not own property or vote.

If someone wants it, that automatically makes it right!
Isn’t that the very standard gay marriage proponents are using?

Because governments have no responsibility to supervise and control their populations, just to bend to their every whim no matter how monstrous or misguided.
Perhaps we should ask the people in China and North Korea about monstrous and misguided government supervision.

I also note you simply ignored my linked article eviscerating all the so-called verses of the Bible that condemn homosexuality.
Trust me, I didn’t ignore it.  I just elected not to respond to it after reading it.  Whenever I read articles in which the author clearly attempts to invalidate large sections of Scripture / doctrine in favor of a particular agenda -- i.e., no such thing as original sin, there is no hell (Rob Bell), etc. -- then I hardly consider it worth my time to provide a detailed response.  But since you asked for one… I vigorously disagree with Rev. Sandlin’s position.   

I will also note that I don't really give two flips what Paul said. Paul was just a dude. A dude with all his own prejudices, shortcomings and flaws like you and me. A dude who wrote about the world as he saw it and understood it at the time. Just a dude.
Since you obviously don’t even care or believe what the Bible says (Paul authored 13 New Testament books), why call me out for not responding to the heretical article you posted? 

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Re: Proposition 8 Overturned
« Reply #48 on: February 08, 2012, 01:09:09 AM »
I'm a staunch, diehard Republican/conservative.  My family is quite the Catholic family. But I could care less whether gays and lesbians want to get married.  A guy and a girl want to get married?  Fine.  Two dudes want to get married? Fine.  Two girls want to get married?  Fine. 

I completely understand the whole religious point of view, and I would understand it if someone brought up the impacts it would have on things like insurance policies and taxes, but at the end of the day, let them all get married if they want.

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Re: Proposition 8 Overturned
« Reply #49 on: February 08, 2012, 01:12:44 AM »
If I'm not mistaken, TUC is referring to the Catholic church's teachings, which include (but not limited to) things such as:
Since TUC has declined to comment further on the matter, that is just speculation on your part. 

And I have to say, when you referred to the teachings of the church, I was thrown off when you mentioned things like the virgin birth and the resurrection, not the actual teachings of Jesus.
Why were you surprised?  These teachings/doctrines are central to the Catholic faith.  In fact, I don’t personally know a single practicing/devout Catholic (and I know a lot) who denies the virgin birth.  That’s why I specifically asked him to clarify what he meant by "vast majority” of things he agreed with.  As I said, I am attempting to see if his faith agrees with the very scientific consensus he has defended in other threads.  Apparently I hit a sensitive nerve as evident by his short, no further comment reply.

Here's my thought process: does it matter if Jesus was born of a virgin birth or literally rose from the dead?
Yes!  Paul writes in 1 Corinthians 15:14 and 17, “And if Christ is not risen, then our preaching is empty and your faith is also empty…  And if Christ is not risen, your faith is futile; you are still in your sins!”

Seems pretty clear to me from that passage that His resurrection is absolutely vital to the Christian faith and forgiveness of sins.

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Re: Proposition 8 Overturned
« Reply #50 on: February 08, 2012, 02:04:15 AM »
I thought this was a Gay Marriage thread.

Why all this talk of imaginary friends?

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Re: Proposition 8 Overturned
« Reply #51 on: February 08, 2012, 02:26:22 AM »
Firstly, there is basis for morality in evolution.
Please provide an example.  And then explain how there is morality in Darwin’s Survival of the Fittest in which killing for food, shelter or mates to ensure species survival is critical. 

Secondly, we fight Darwinian impulses all the time… Contraception is an example of us resisting a Darwinian impulse. And there are many other examples.
You mean like propagating the weak (see Darwin’s Descent of Man); or saving species that are destined for extinction (e.g., pandas)?  Why on earth would we wish for the weakest members of any species to propagate their kind?

Secondly, even if there was no basis for good and evil, moral or immoral in the natural world, why on earth does that matter?.
You’re kidding, right? 

This reminds me of a quick side question:  What are your thoughts about the man in Washington State that just killed his two small boys and himself by first slashing them with a hatched and then blowing up his house?  According to Professor Provine (and atheists), no big deal since all three just ceased to exist, right?  So please explain why we consider this man’s actions to be so horrendous.

There still CAN be a basis for morality in human society. We can create a right or wrong.
Whose standards shall we use, yours or mine?

Even if there are no "purposes", it does not mean that there isn't earthly purpose in our daily lives.
I believe you are contradicting yourself.  If there are no purposes, how can there possibly be any purpose in our lives?  That would constitute purpose, right?

Because luckily, we have two innate agents of morality, namely empathy and understanding.
Can you empirically prove empathy, understanding or love?  Again, these elements are not physically found anywhere in nature, so how can science prove their existence?
Disappointingly, there was not a single satisfactory rhetorical question or point made in that entire post. Let me start from the beginning.
1. The theory of evolution posits that much of our inborn morality has group and individual survival value. This is supported by the behaviour of many other species. In other words, because our imperative is to survive and propogate our genes, and certain moral behaviours assist us in doing so, we intuitively perform them. I pre-empt your outrage already. What a horrific subversion of morality! How dare someone tell me that I'm only performing good deeds because they have survival value! Well to answer that I will repeat: we can override Darwinian instincts. Other reasons for moral behaviours may arise and predominate... for example, they could be part of a value system generated from one's conceptions of the world.
Your question about Darwin's survival of the fittest is a false one that demonstrates a dismal misunderstanding of the Survival of the Fittest. It is simply not MEANT to offer any morality. It's that simple. It just... simply documents what happens in nature. If you want to refute the survival of the fittest, go gather your evidence that it does NOT occur in the animal kingdom and then present it to me, or rather the scientific community, who are always open to debate evidence.
So let's once and for all dispell the ridiculous misconception that somehow Darwinists get their morality from the concepts of natural selection and survival of the fittest. If Darwin indeed proposed the natural order as the basis for our morality, that is completely irrelevant. To remind you, what we're actually concerned about is the supremely and unequivocally evidenced theory of evolution, the explanation about what happens in the animal kingdom and the journey of life on our planet. To say "survival of the fittest occurs in nature" and then ask "where's the morality in it?" is a profound non sequitor. Evolutionists have actually explicitly stated that running society on the principles of survival of the fittest would be disastrous for human well being (the general secular basis of morality).
2. We wish to propogate the weakest and save endagered species from extinction because the goal of a secular morality is to promote and maintain the well being of all life. Once again, your effort to tack on Darwin's views to Darwin's scientific theory (which renowned scientists say has as much evidence as the theory that the planets orbit the sun...) has, contrary to demonstrating the supposed weak morals of evolutionists, in fact illustrated a rather odd inability to discriminate between concepts.
3. This is the worst one. Did you notice that I specifically said natural? When a star dies, or when a galaxy explodes, could you honestly call that "evil"? When a rock is blown over a cliff, and cracks, is that evil? When a Shark devours its prey, is that "evil", exactly? We ascribe the labels of good and evil to actions and concepts that we as human beings indentify as bad. We can NOT assume that good and evil are determined by some divine force, that good and evil exists in the natural world and, worst of all, that a book established as highly flawed and man made is a document containing all of these indelible, unappealable absolute morals.
Your question to me is plainly both ignorant and insulting, but I'll provide a serious answer. " According to Professor Provine (and atheists), no big deal since all three just ceased to exist, right? ".
Wrong. Their lives were taken from them, pain was inflicted on them, and selfishness and sadism were involved among other things. As a secularist myself, I believe in an inherent (but not divinely implanted) human dignity. This might not compute as possible, but I assure you it is, and it is shared by all of my friends, regardless of their religious beliefs. It comes from the value for life, a value that shouldn't be undermined when it doesn't come from a book. I must emphasis this: you do not need to believe in transcendent power or objective good or evil to identify good and evil using empathy and understanding, which all of us are born with. And this point will address your 4th question about whose standards we shall use. We don't use either of our standards. We take a moral measure which we can all agree on, this being the necessarily extraordinarily broad "well being of sentient life" (which covers things like equality, the pursuit of happiness, the important/relevant commandments and really anything you throw at it), and we rationally argue the case of all acts and behaviours within this frame of reference. (For further information, see the legal system). The law, I will mention once again, is a great example of how we come up with rules and notions of justice without a divine mandate. It comes from concensus and throuroughly reasoned and rigorously tested values such as equality. You can go on and on about how this method is too mutable, too facile, or too fickle, but its the source of such things as equal rights for women and the abolition of slavery. You can disagree with the yardstick being "the well being of sentient creatures" or something related to the miminization of suffering, but give me a revolutionary moral-based movement (such as the one's mentioned above) that can't be traced back to such an imperative.
This is how we treat right and wrong now. And this is how it must be treated. The presence of other religions in the absence of evidence favouring any of them (to a non-negligable degree) makes it (thankfully) unacceptable to simply impose the moral commands of a single religion onto society. Funnily enough, actually, attempts to impose religious moral absolutes have, for decades now, been screened through society's moral criteria, the secular mechanism I have been arguing for. We won't stone people for working on Sundays anymore because it did not meet society's moral criteria. So you simply cannot refute the existence and dominance of such a criteria. You may try and push anti homosexual "morality" through the filter, but thankfully it is clear that our moral criteria as a society has evolved far enough to be out of reach for this particular attempt.

On your fifth point about purposes, I suspect you knew what I meant, but I concede that perhaps that's a dangerous overestimation. I will rephrase. There may be no transcendent, predetermined or extrinsically determined "purpose" for each one of us. But there is much in the physical world to generate "earthly" purposes that are determined by oneself or that are implications of certain roles one occupies. For example, I feel like a purpose of my own is to be as fair as I can to those I meet. We all have such purposes, whether we make the assumption that we have designated purposes or not. And to suggest that none of these purposes are meaningful just because there's no punishment and reward system is somewhat childish. There is such a thing as revelling in the physical realm of earthly life.

And as for your last question, my current understanding of it is neither flattering nor likely correct. So I'd appreciate a rephrasing of the question.

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Re: Proposition 8 Overturned
« Reply #52 on: February 08, 2012, 02:29:03 AM »
I thought this was a Gay Marriage thread.

Why all this talk of imaginary friends?
I really wish there was none of that talk too, but it appears to be the only fuel for the dissenters of gay marriage.

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Re: Proposition 8 Overturned
« Reply #53 on: February 08, 2012, 05:57:29 AM »
However, consider this...

If the existence of God could be proven beyond any doubt, or if the non existence of God could be proven beyond any doubt there would be no debate.

I know that one side is doing better than the other on the subject of evidence.

And that's strange given that the burden of proof is on the other side.

But again I ask... What the flower does God, real or otherwise, have to do with 2 people wanting to marry?

What the flower do utterly contradictory words in a multiply translated and multiple sourced ancient tome have to do with gay marriage?

I'll save you all the typing effort.

None

So oppose gay marriage as much as you (and by 'you' I mean anyone, not singling folk out) like, but do so without hiding behind a curtain of faith.

Say "I think homosexuality and it's formal recognition via marriage is disgusting because I personally do not like what they do".

It's not that hard to say, and you have a right to think that. If you feel that way then homophobic is a description that should worry you no more than claustrophobic.

But doing it under the guise of what a book tells you, or because you believe you have morals that only god can instill is far more offensive I propose than allowing Steve and Tarquin to say 'I do'...

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Re: Proposition 8 Overturned
« Reply #54 on: February 08, 2012, 06:22:25 AM »
I like what jesus had to say on gay marriage (and abortion)

Below are his teachings on the subjects.


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Re: Proposition 8 Overturned
« Reply #55 on: February 08, 2012, 07:14:39 AM »
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Why were you surprised?  These teachings/doctrines are central to the Catholic faith.  In fact, I don’t personally know a single practicing/devout Catholic (and I know a lot) who denies the virgin birth.  That’s why I specifically asked him to clarify what he meant by "vast majority” of things he agreed with.  As I said, I am attempting to see if his faith agrees with the very scientific consensus he has defended in other threads.  Apparently I hit a sensitive nerve as evident by his short, no further comment reply.

Not really, you just fundamentally misunderstand the nature of science and Catholicism. The idea that believing in God puts you in contradiction with science is just flat out wrong, as evidenced by the many scientists who believe in God. We cannot prove the existence of God, but nor can we disprove it (Some scientists doubtless disagree on either side of that particular debate). Science is, after all, created by God. ;)

But yeah, I really have to agree with ryanm here. You are spectacularly missing the point of Catholicism, I think. What I like about it is its acceptance that people of all faiths can be saved, not just Catholics or Christians. I like its emphasis on redemption, on good works, on the idea that man cannot find fulfillment through selfish acts or through wealth but through giving to others, helping the less fortunate. I like the golden rule, I like the Beatitudes, I like letting he who is without sin cast the first stone. That is the core of Catholicism- and if you think otherwise, you're not only misinformed, you're just... sad.

You, on the other hand, quite clearly see yourself as without sin because you have shown yourself in this thread extremely eager to cast as many stones as humanly possible.

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Re: Proposition 8 Overturned
« Reply #56 on: February 08, 2012, 07:27:43 AM »
If I'm not mistaken, TUC is referring to the Catholic church's teachings, which include (but not limited to) things such as:
Since TUC has declined to comment further on the matter, that is just speculation on your part. 

And I have to say, when you referred to the teachings of the church, I was thrown off when you mentioned things like the virgin birth and the resurrection, not the actual teachings of Jesus.
Why were you surprised?  These teachings/doctrines are central to the Catholic faith.  In fact, I don’t personally know a single practicing/devout Catholic (and I know a lot) who denies the virgin birth.  That’s why I specifically asked him to clarify what he meant by "vast majority” of things he agreed with.  As I said, I am attempting to see if his faith agrees with the very scientific consensus he has defended in other threads.  Apparently I hit a sensitive nerve as evident by his short, no further comment reply.

Here's my thought process: does it matter if Jesus was born of a virgin birth or literally rose from the dead?
Yes!  Paul writes in 1 Corinthians 15:14 and 17, “And if Christ is not risen, then our preaching is empty and your faith is also empty…  And if Christ is not risen, your faith is futile; you are still in your sins!”

Seems pretty clear to me from that passage that His resurrection is absolutely vital to the Christian faith and forgiveness of sins.
I can't help but wonder if you are trolling. Because if you are, good job.

But you know, your posts make me sad about this whole argument. You can't really divulge your real feelings, because that's not what the church wants or taught you to do. You've been instructed to answer things based on scripture, and that's the real sad part. You've been fed that garbage all of your life, and it's impossible for you to use any type of logic in your arguments because of it.
Enjoy giving away your money/life to the church.




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Re: Proposition 8 Overturned
« Reply #57 on: February 08, 2012, 07:38:10 AM »
It may be trite, but I'd like to point out that Paul was actually against ALL marriage because he felt that it took away one from their devotion of God. I cant remember the specific verse, but I found it funny. I wanted to use it in my next marriage ceremony (next: I'm widowed, not divorced, and I anticipate that someday I will again get married).

So I wouldnt use Paul in any argument against gay marriage.

I also think Paul was probably trying to submerge his own homosexual tendencies. LOL! Not really, I'm just trying to start a fight. Okay, on some level, I did wonder that about Paul. He seemed to hate women a lot too. One of my good friends is Catholic (and much more read than me--I'm agnostic and I go to a Unitarian Universalist church so I'm hardly qualified to make any profound word-for-word Biblical arguments, though I have read some of the Bible and studied it with people in my church), and she even kind of detests Paul. He was kind of a chauvinist pig.

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Re: Proposition 8 Overturned
« Reply #58 on: February 08, 2012, 08:13:10 AM »
When did what Paul, or these "corinthians" of which we speak get a say in US lawmaking anyway ?

You'd be as well using the DaVinci Code or Harry Potter, those are more based in reality and fact anyway.




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Re: Proposition 8 Overturned
« Reply #59 on: February 08, 2012, 08:22:30 AM »
When did what Paul, or these "corinthians" of which we speak get a say in US lawmaking anyway ?

You'd be as well using the DaVinci Code or Harry Potter, those are more based in reality and fact anyway.

Oh, but remember... we're a "Christian nation." Founded in "Christian principles." By "Christian leaders."

A blatant re-write of history... Our founders were NOT Christian in the way people now want to believe they were... They were Gnostics and Deists... and a bunch of other "isms" that in no way were literal interpretations of the Bible. (Jefferson, in fact, wrote his own Bible in which he removed all the miracles, magic, and fairy tale parts.) I daresay that a few of our founding fathers may even have been *gasp* agnostic.

They also believed there should be a separation between church and state because they were running from a political system in which these were not separate. So religion should not play into politics at all. And, yet... have we elected an atheist or agnostic leader?