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Re: I wonder
« Reply #105 on: May 15, 2011, 09:57:05 AM »
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I am wondering if this guy in my bike club is hitting on me...  ::)

this not a good thing??

I dont know. It might be. I am trying to figure out how I feel about it. Also, I'm put off by men right now.

well, not ALL men.... ;)

Some men can be nice you know MG  ;)

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Re: I wonder
« Reply #106 on: May 15, 2011, 09:59:31 AM »
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I am wondering if this guy in my bike club is hitting on me...  ::)

this not a good thing??

I dont know. It might be. I am trying to figure out how I feel about it. Also, I'm put off by men right now.

well, not ALL men.... ;)

Some men can be nice you know MG  ;)

I know men can be nice... But I've been on my own for basically 10 years.... I've had some boyfriends in there... But I really like my life the way it is and I dont want to stop and have to consider someone else when I'm making plans or doing things... or spending my money... Basically I like being alone.

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Re: I wonder
« Reply #107 on: May 15, 2011, 10:04:31 AM »
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I am wondering if this guy in my bike club is hitting on me...  ::)

this not a good thing??

I dont know. It might be. I am trying to figure out how I feel about it. Also, I'm put off by men right now.

well, not ALL men.... ;)

Some men can be nice you know MG  ;)

I know men can be nice... But I've been on my own for basically 10 years.... I've had some boyfriends in there... But I really like my life the way it is and I dont want to stop and have to consider someone else when I'm making plans or doing things... or spending my money... Basically I like being alone.

I know what you mean. I have friends like that, who just like their own space and freedom and I applaud you for knowing what you want in life. Not many people are decisive like that, infact, most people are the complete opposite. It's nice to have your own freedom and space to do whatever you want and being in love isn't always the easiest thing in the world  :)

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Re: I wonder
« Reply #108 on: May 15, 2011, 10:06:42 AM »
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I am wondering if this guy in my bike club is hitting on me...  ::)

this not a good thing??

I dont know. It might be. I am trying to figure out how I feel about it. Also, I'm put off by men right now.

well, not ALL men.... ;)

Some men can be nice you know MG  ;)

I know men can be nice... But I've been on my own for basically 10 years.... I've had some boyfriends in there... But I really like my life the way it is and I dont want to stop and have to consider someone else when I'm making plans or doing things... or spending my money... Basically I like being alone.

I know what you mean. I have friends like that, who just like their own space and freedom and I applaud you for knowing what you want in life. Not many people are decisive like that, infact, most people are the complete opposite. It's nice to have your own freedom and space to do whatever you want and being in love isn't always the easiest thing in the world  :)

No, it's not. I know you're not supposed to think this way, but I sometimes wonder if the risk of sacrifice is worth it. I sometimes think that I'd rather have never met my husband than to have suffered through the loss of his death. I'm not so sure I believe that "it's better to have loved and lost than never loved at all." Really. As Tommy Lee Jones says in _Men in Black_, "Try it sometime."

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Re: I wonder
« Reply #109 on: May 15, 2011, 10:10:33 AM »
I agree with this. If you love and lose somebody then you have two very different emotions... 1. you have the benefit of loving them for as long as you are together but 2. you have to suffer the rest of your life without them. It is difficult to describe, but I think you put it nicely and I fully agree with what you have said.

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Re: I wonder
« Reply #110 on: May 15, 2011, 10:57:15 AM »
I think I'm closed off... Yet I love the part in The Ground Beneath Her Feet where Bono sings, "Let me love you true, let me rescue you." Who doesn't want a little rescuing? Of course, no person can truly rescue you from yourself.

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Re: I wonder
« Reply #111 on: May 15, 2011, 10:58:01 AM »
I WONDER WHEN MY TEACHER WILL GRADE MY PAPER

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Re: I wonder
« Reply #112 on: May 15, 2011, 10:58:51 AM »
MG! One day your (new) prince will come. Maybe he just took a wrong turn, got lost and is too stubborn to ask for directions.

And in the meanwhile I totally get what you´re saying about beeing alone, I think it´s very important that you can "love and live with yourself" and feel good about it before trying to live with others. People who can´t stand beeing alone is in my oppinon not ready to enter a meaningfull relationship.  

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Re: I wonder
« Reply #113 on: May 15, 2011, 10:59:50 AM »
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I think I'm closed off... Yet I love the part in The Ground Beneath Her Feet where Bono sings, "Let me love you true, let me rescue you." Who doesn't want a little rescuing? Of course, no person can truly rescue you from yourself.
you can look for a prince in the GA line  :D

you'll already have something in common  ;)

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Re: I wonder
« Reply #114 on: May 15, 2011, 01:20:02 PM »
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I think I'm closed off... Yet I love the part in The Ground Beneath Her Feet where Bono sings, "Let me love you true, let me rescue you." Who doesn't want a little rescuing? Of course, no person can truly rescue you from yourself.
you can look for a prince in the GA line  :D

you'll already have something in common  ;)

I was looking for one who is into cycling AND U2. Since I spend most of my time doing both of those... :) Or skiing. But he has to be into the outdoors and not a lazy-butt.

And, BFP, you're right. People who cant stand to be alone are not ready to enter into a relationship. And I hate needy men.

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Re: I wonder
« Reply #115 on: May 15, 2011, 03:17:00 PM »
I wonder what music I should listen to.

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Re: I wonder
« Reply #116 on: May 15, 2011, 03:17:19 PM »
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I wonder what music I should listen to.
Weezer

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Re: I wonder
« Reply #117 on: May 16, 2011, 05:39:34 AM »
I wonder if my life is officially over....

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Re: I wonder
« Reply #118 on: May 16, 2011, 07:04:19 AM »
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I wonder if my life is officially over....

please visit the teens thread....all your fans were posting about you last night

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Re: I wonder
« Reply #119 on: May 16, 2011, 07:05:46 AM »
Is it any wonder I'm tired?
Is it any wonder that I feel uptight?
Is it any wonder I don't know what's right?
Oh, these days, after all the misery made,
Is it any wonder that I feel afraid?
Is it any wonder that I feel betrayed?